Right, I've been lucky enough to be a Best Man twice. Count them, twice. This is the story of how the second speech nearly got out of hand.
As I am not a confident public speaker, I thought of ways to deflect attention at all costs. This is what I came up with for both speeches.
The best way I could think of to deflect attention from me was to use slides. I got my hands on a laptop (with powerpoint), a screen and a projector. I then asked both sets of parents (of the bride and groom) to give me pictures that I would be able to use. Depending on the pictures you get, a story is easily built around them. I then threw in the odd interesting fact and copied related pictures from google images. For example, for both I gave their date of birth and asked the guests to guess what was at number one the day they were born, then showed pictures of Blondie & Boney M.
In the second speech I employed the miracle of video technology and imported them into powerpoint. I took videos of myself first of all but then thought 'I wonder who else would get involved?'. This is where this speech was bordering on becoming self indulgent and that is where it nearly got out of hand.
Would
'The Sned' do a wee video for us, for a laugh? After many emails back and forward, he stopped replying to me. Possibly because he thought I was stalking him.
As despondent as I was was about
'The Sneddonator' totally dingying the idea, this did not deter me from trying others.
I started thinking about childhood T.V. and contacted
Andy Crane. That's right. Andy Crane fae The Broom Cupboard. Andy Crane agreed straight away. Andy Crane is a good guy. So, there I went, into Manchester with a video camera and filmed him passing on his message to the happy couple. Excellent.
'Why stop there?', I thought. Who else would take part in this journey through 80's/90's television & entertainment?
There I was, writing an email to Keith Chegwin asking if he'll pass on a message to the happy couple. No reply for months. didn't think much of it until one day a package came through the post. In the package was 2 signed GMTV postcards (one for me, another for the bride and groom) and... a DVD. A DVD of Keith Chegwin passing on his best wishes to the happy couple. Keith Chegwin had filmed, overdubbed, edited and posted this. FOR FUCK ALL. Keith Chegwin is a good guy. I sent an email to Keith Chegwin thanking him for being so kind. I added that should he ever be in Macclesfield, I owed him a pint. Keith Chegwin, I later found out, is a reformed alcoholic.
This success level made me do more. Who next?
There I was, writing an email to Timmy Mallett and sure enough, almost instantly, I receive an email back. Timmy Mallett says he'll do it! He's in! He's up for it! He wants £95! Timmy Mallett is a wank.
I moved on. Swiftly...
Next,
The Krankies. Again, email back the same day. From Ian Krankie, no less. Ian goes on to explain that The Krankies are in Australia until June but I was to find attached an e-card that Jimmy had made for them. Good enough. The Krankies are good guys/women.
It was at this point I felt that self-indulgence was taking over. I pressed on.
David Dickinson next. He only lives up the road. I wrote a good old fashioned letter to him. 3 days later, I got a letter back. Enclosed was a compliments slip, written in Mr. Dickinson's fair hand, declining my offer to film him for this momentous occasion. He did, however, provide an A5 postcard for "the best man to use for the after dinner speeches". I made it abundantly clear in my letter that I was the best man. The card said that he hears "Fiona is a Bobby-dazzler" and he passes on his congratulations. David "The Duke" Dickinson is a good guy.
D'you know what the groom loved?
Red Dwarf. That's whit.
A wee email to BBC 6 Music -
Craig Charles' funk and soul show - and BOOYALL! meeting him the next Saturday at BBC Manchester studios. So, me and Gibby go for a couple of pints, take a camcorder, film Craig Charles passing on his best wishes and go for a couple more pints. That was a good day. Craig Charles is a good guy.
So, I wondered who my Celtic supporting friend was working with at the moment?
Can Phil sort that out. Aye, can he. Not only that, guess who's a guest on Andi Peters' show the next day...
WALLOP. 2-4-1 celebrity deal. McGarvey films both passing on their message, burns it on to a DVD and sends it to me. Andi Peters is a good guy. Eoghan Quigg is a good guy. Phil McGarvey is more than a good guy.
Other participants included
'Thunder' (really shit band, but the groom LOVED them) who sent a well wishing, signed card.
Tony Butler, who sent a well wishing email (Big Country's bass player) and
Dougie MacLean, who sent a signed CD of the album that 'Caledonia' is on (That was their first dance).
So, I compiled them, put them in some kind order, showed pictures of the bride and groom throughout their lives and delivered it like a trainer in a call centre.
Finally -People who didn't respond, in no particular order:
Sting, Chris Barrie, Robert Llewellyn, Danny John Jules, Ronan Keating, McFly, a John Lennon Lookalike, The Bootleg Beatles, Michelle McManus, Darius Danesh & Lion-o... Miserable shower of bastards.
Anyway, the moral of the story is, I REALLY fucking enjoyed it. Right?